I love to embroidery, I know what you’re thinking, what doesn’t she love? Well, I don’t love. . .oh we will leave that for another time. Ecclesiastes 4:12 says: “A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” It sure is true in my embroidery experience and it’s true in live.
I am just going to jump right in and say I am comparing this to at least 3 things we need in our life to stay strong. First, we each need a mentor–perhaps an older person, for sure someone who knows Jesus.
Second, we need someone to encourage us. Last week two of my little grands visited us, it was so much fun to encourage them and watch what encouragement does for them. I have seen it in the lives of women, when we are encouraged we seem to blossom.
Third we each need to invest in the life of a younger person or someone who does not know Christ like we do. I have never felt any closer to the Lord than when I was investing in another person’s spiritual life. I think I grew as much or more than she did.
Sometimes a person may start out knowing an individual in one way and then after a time this person may become part of the strand of the cord. I think often we never allow ourselves to be open enough to allow another individual to help us grow in Christ or grow as an individual, We have the idea that we can do it all by ourselves.
If we allow a mentor in our life who truly loves us they will tell us like it is. Love always wants the best for the other person. Sometimes that means we need to speak some difficult truths rather than simply stroke each other’s egos. Jesus challenged His disciples when they needed it.
I hope you will look for a mentor, someone to mentor and someone who will encourage you, it’s worth your time.