A Life Worth Living by Nancy Buxton

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A Birthday to Remember

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What a Party!

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The Hostesses

Last evening we celebrated.  It was a birthday celebration for my friend, she is turning 80.  She doesn’t seem to mind the fact that we all know her age and why should she?  She has aged well.

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Three Handsome Waiters!Do you love surprises? I do. I am rarely surprised but this was a surprise. Our waiters were inexperienced but they were fun and willing to do whatever the hostess asked of them.The food was lovely! We started the meal with three little soups in small cups. With lovely garnishes. We had potato, cream of asparagus and cantaloupe soup. All yummy. You cangetting ready to serve the first coursesee how lovely the presentation was.There were 14 of us and we had fun telling stories about our guest of honor. We laughed and enjoyed being together. That's how women are, we love a reason for a party. We thrive on each other's company. We need to get together for the sake of our well-being.The salads came next. We had lentil salad, green salad in wonton wrappers and tomato salad. Great Salads

I know what you are thinking!  You are thinking about my diet aren’t you?  Well, your right, this was not on my plan.  Here’s what I decided. I am eating everything!  That was simple, don’t you think?
There were 14 of us and we had fun telling stories about our friendship with our guest of honor.
 
Each person received a lovely box of sweets as our gift.  It  has had two different kinds of cookies, a piece of fudge and a caramel.  I ate it all that night.  Well, I thought if I am going to eat this I better do it all in one day and get back “on the wagon” the very next day.  I ate dessert and all.  There you have it.
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Great Salads

 
Okay, next came the entrée!  The best Butternut Squash I have ever eaten drizzled with a reduced balsamic vinegar  with baked tofu in the center,  fingerling potatoes with caramelized onions.
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don't let looks deceive you

My man has no clue as to what drizzle means, so you can see his thoughts were– more is better.  This food was soooooooooo good.
 
Isn’t it always fun to have someone cook a meal and invite you over?  I love eating someone else’s cooking.  It always seems so much better than mine.
 
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Happy Birthday My Friend!

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Dessert was a lovely cake, including ice cream and sorbet.
 
Why am I telling you this?  First of all I don’t know a woman who doesn’t like to hear about a successful party.  We love pretty things, good food and good company.  But that’s not the reason. 
 
I am thinking about the start and finishing of a live.  Not that at 80 my friend is finished.  It’s just that life is winding down for her.  Well, isn’t it for all of us?
 
I ask you and I ask my self how are you finishing, are you finishing well?  Have you become less critical, more accepting?  Have you tamed the gossip tiger who  lives within you?  Do you enjoy giving more than you enjoy receiving?  Do you complement your family, your spouse, your daughter in law, your children, your son in law,  your friend?  Have you put the jealous lion out of your life?  Can you celebrate others success, new car, new dress or new house?
 
Mark 12:30-31 reads: “Love the Lord your God with all your  heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.”  The second is this: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
 
It’s a lot to think about but I want to finish well, don’t you?
PS–For me computers have a mind of their own and I know this post is a mess.  I can’t fix anything that is in the box under the picture so just go with it and know I continue to do this right.  I’m just not always successful.
 
 
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Are You Getting Ready?

I can feel the excitement building!  You may be wondering what I am talking about!  Women’s Ministries, of course.  We have a great year planned for Women’s Ministries at my church.  Do you have any thing going on at your church?  I sure hope you do, because Women’s Ministries is a perfect way to invite your neighbors, friends, family and members that perhaps you have not seen for a while, to something special.

At my church we have several things going on.  We have women’s Bible studies, mom’s groups and Women in Touch.

Why not plan an event?  You don’t have to “go all out,” you could make this an evening of great decorations, dessert and a good speaker or program.  You just need something your members will be pleased to invite their friends to attend.  Make this event not about doctrine but about Jesus! 

I would love to help you plan something, please leave a comment on this blog if you need some ideas.

A Special Day

Can you tell Papa had some help blowing out the candles?

Can you tell Papa had some help blowing out the candles?

Yesterday was my man’s birthday!  He is. . .Well let’s just say next year we are going to have a Medicare Party.  We are looking forward to Medicare, didn’t think we would ever think it much less say it.  With the high price of health insurance we have changed our thinking. 

It shocks me to think we have grown old together, well maybe not old but at least seasoned. We use to be so young, I had long blonde, straight hair and he had hair.  I didn’t out weigh him and he was a hunk.  Here we are I am struggling with my weight and he certainly watches his weight.  My hair is brown with the help of the hairdresser and he doesn’t know where his comb is because he no longer has any hair to comb.

In my prayer for his birthday, I thanked the Lord for him.  He is a special man, he makes the bed every morning.  He lets me be me.  He never complains when I go on a trip for Women’s Ministries.  He is kind to me and he never complains about any thing I do.  He likes my cooking no matter what I make.

I like his quiet ways.  If I don’t know the answer to something he usually does.  I like the way he takes care of my car, he keeps it clean and usually makes sure I have plenty of fuel.  I appreciate the fact that he is honest and hard working.  He cries when he sees something sad.  I love his tender heart.

When I decided to marry this man, I was not a mature Christian.  It never dawned on me to pray about my decision, to ask God if He thought this man was right for me. 

I am so thankful God cares enough to stick with me even when I don’t consult him.  He never turns his back on me and he is always in my corner.  What a God.

The birthday has come and gone but when I wake up in the morning and hear my man’s  soft snore I am thankful he is beside me.  I am thankful we have given our children the example of  “sticking”.  I am thankful he is mine and I am his.  I am thankful God took a marriage that was not prayed over by us, (I am sure my mother prayed for both of us), and made it good.

PS:  Another 1 1/2 pounds down, that makes 15 1/2.  Seems slow, don’t you think?  Well, maybe not to you, your not watching your friends eat Buster Bar Dessert.  Maybe Buster Bar will be your Thursday dessert recipe, who knows.

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